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thursday nighttt. long long talkathon with twin (i mean, after meeting evaluation and everything, which doesnt count haha). we were both really happy cos someone made our day by telling me she thinks sharon and i are much much closer than two other supposedly close people. to which twin and i both responded, 'well that's cos our friendship is built on God!' =D

okay, back to the point. we were talking about people not treasuring their friendships and she said she felt like she took a church friend of hers for granted. like how people get so comfortable with each other that they stop keeping track of how their actions might impact one another. i think for me, what i get seriously pissed off at is when people take their tempers out on me. actually, i'm quite used to it already cos outta my three best friends, two of them have this problem. but that still doesn't mean i like it when people throw tantrums at me...it's actually one of the things i hate and despise the most. let's say your friend has a very dry sense of humor and you're usually very amused at her sacarsm. but one day when you're in a bad mood, her dry witticism just ticks you off and you spin around and lash out at her. exactly how is your friend supposed to feel? would she even feel that she is the one at fault? alright, so there're people in this world who don't like dry humor. but the point is, you've been accepting of it all along so what gives you the right to suddenly flare up just cos you aren't feeling too great? it's like what people say: if girls choose to dress in a very revealing way, then they lose the right to complain when guys...um...stare.

blah. sorry for being so angsty. this issue's been bothering me for quite long and today i felt that i really had to let off some steam.

posted by xin! @ 3:23 PM