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oh, i just remembered something adrian told me yesterday and i think it's very cool!

'sometimes, the higher the wall a person builds around himself, the more trust he has in you as a friend to break it down. the higher the wall, the hungrier his desire for you to break it down.'

nice right? i mean, i always knew that people inside walls have a desire for others to break down the wall. but i didn't realise that the height of the wall might correspond to the degree of faith the person has in you as a friend. simply put, if A treats B as a so-so friend, A might not bother testing the friendship so much, or simply does not think B can weather the test. but if A puts more value on the friendship, A might subconsciously put B through a higher degree of testing to discern the true potential of the friendship. kinda like how people in bgrs play the hard-to-get game, lol.

so to all the people out there who are still trying to break down walls, take heart! 1 john 4:7 let us love another, for love comes from God. anyone who loves another has been born of God and knows God.

posted by xin! @ 12:51 PM